Introduction Last week, I received an e-mail from a reader in Atlanta who’s facing the ‘is this all a fetish or am I transgender?” question (as you can see above, she described the dilemma in much more colorful language.) We decided to investigate and create a test…   First of all, why do some people see ‘sissy’ fantasies as challenging their transgender status? 1. The sexual desire to be a woman is so incredibly strong that it makes you wonder if it isn’t the main power source of your transgender desire. 2. You are keenly aware that some of your crossgender behaviour is overtly fetishistic (sissifcation, humilaition, transvestic etc.), making you suspect the whole thing is an elaborate fetish. 3. Your first crossgender experiences were sexual – therefore it’s sequentially logical that later transgender experiences grew out of what came before. Let me save you hundreds of hours of therapy! … Continue reading Test: Is this just a sissy fetish…or am I transgender? Three reasons why this is the wrong question