1.He’s not as straight as you think.

The most common theory is that your straight boyfriend is looking at shemale porn because he’s not ‘straight as an arrow,’ but more like the bow…

…moderately bent.

It’s important to remember that not being straight doesn’t mean he’s gay. There are a range of possibilities, stretching from he literally loves the cock – all the way to mildly bi-curious.

However, if he was into gay sex then you’d find gay porn as well, but many guys who like shemales are turned off by gay porn. This leads us back to the question: if he’s not gay…why is he salivating over a shemale’s penis?

Perhaps shemales are mens’ version of Katy Perry’s kissing a girl and liking it. Like girls, a large percentage of men aren’t 100% hetero, but that doesn’t mean they want to fuck boys; instead, it comes out with ladyboys, who have all the nice things about girls (soft skin, breasts, sexy outfits etc.) but come fully equipped for a trip to the wilderness ( i.e. they have a cock.) Shemales are like the swiss-army knife of the erotic world: a multi-faceted erotic tool – with a tool!

This theory suggests, therefore, that your boyfriend’s not gay or bi, but that – like many people – he’s just not 100% straight.

2. He wants to be a shemale.

It may surprise you to know that your man doesn’t fantasize about fucking a large breasted ladyboy… he fantasizes about being a large breasted ladyboy. But don’t worry about it…it’s perfectly normal.

Okay, maybe it’s not so normal…but this website primarily deals with the subject of crossdreaming: a man’s erotic desire to be a woman. Such men are usually heterosexual but like dressing up as girls and doing other girly stuff, but that doesn’t mean they actually do it. There are some non-practicing crossdreamers.

The thrill in shemale porn is, therefore, seeing a biological male who’s become a girl, because he’d like to do the same.

3. He likes to be humiliated.

A real man puts a girl on all fours and ‘gives her one’…so what could be more humiliating for a man to be put on all fours by a girl…who then gives him…‘one?’

Most heterosexuals have erotic interests that go beyond penetration… and humiliation is one of them. Being forced to give fellatio or to take anal is alluringly humiliating for men who like to be submissive. Furthermore, the shemale allows the penis to be used without the fantasy becoming gay. It is a tool of humiliation rather than homosexuality.


4. Because the penis is erotic – independently of men.

The penis is so quintessentially male that we can’t help think that being turned on by a penis must mean that you’re attracted to men. However, let’s consider the following phenomena…

  • Lesbians who use strap-ons.
  • Straight men who like sucking a strap-on cock attached to a female dominatrix.
  • Straight men who like shemales.

In all of these cases, people are getting turned on by the male organ but they are not attracted to men.

This means that the male phallus is working as a symbolic, erotic object – just as a latex catsuit or handcuffs work as erotic objects. In other words, the penis doesn’t have to be attached to a male to be a turn on.

There may also be an element of eurotophobia – fear of the vagina. The penis is a familiar, protruding, aesthetically pleasing object. The vagina is kinda like a mushy hole (and may my mother forgive me for that description!)

5. Genre diversity.

No, you’re not looking at a misspelling of the politically correct word ‘gender diversity’ you’re looking at the unpolitically correct word, genre diversity.

Genre diversity is the end-point for men who watch too much porn. They’ve reached such a stage of saturation with the regular stuff that they experiment with different genres. Most sites have about 200 genres that include everything from dwarves (…people tell me;)) to bestiality.

Diverging into shemale porn seems to be one of the first turns that a straight guy takes from straight porn (….people tell me.)

Conclusion: shemales don’t exist

The best way to stop freaking out about your husband watching the occasional shemale flick, is to stop thinking of a shemale as a shemale. Shemales are women.

The reason you know they’re women is not due to any airy-fairy transgender theory, but because your straight boyfriend likes them. He wouldn’t be turned on by two men having sex, or a blatantly male crossdresser. This means that he’s not seeking out men in disguise or a half man-half-woman. He’s enjoying a woman with a penis. If he didn’t see her as a woman…he wouldn’t get turned on.

Think of it this way: getting turned on by women in lingerie doesn’t make a guy a ‘transvestite.’ Similarly, getting turned on by a beautiful woman with a penis doesn’t make him gay. As we discussed earlier, the penis can be an erotic object completely independent of the gender its associated with.

Don’t believe me? Ok… so buy a strapon and see how your man responds. I bet you he’ll be sucking on that thing like there’s no tomorrow.

Get back to me with the results  – felixconrad45@gmail.com (Click on the link below to vote for the world’s most beautiful transgirl.)

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5 Comments

  1. Obviously a woman wrote this article to shame men. Maybe ur bf likes shemales bacause you consistently shame men ? Because you want to own ur bf and consume his soul. All about you right? Like sorry Karen maybe guys like that kind of porn because your a rude bitch, and ur bf would actually rather f anything other than something like you because of ur bull.

  2. “The best way to stop freaking out about your husband watching the occasional shemale flick, is to stop thinking of a shemale as a shemale. Shemales are women.”
    There not women there men! Men that have had surgery to look like women. It’s a slap to the face to the gf or wife. How could they hat over that. Thinking that there body isn’t good enough, that they have to have a penis strapped to them because there vagina isn’t good enough for there man.

  3. I’m not sure she was being crude or rude. Wendy’O William’s styled heart to heart. Hello me meet the real me. Haha. Definately have this in my life the LadyBoy partner, he’s acting it out like a secret squirrel for eleven years. Has anyone ever noticed that squirrels plant trees? I do believe that they don’t eat the majority of their nuts.. Any how my beloved totally has an addiction to Punk Rock, Pabst Blue Ribbon and Total Annihilation (lately Dune) via PC. Then there’s that bookmarked LadyBoy Files in MY phone Lol.. oh my. Could he be even more revealing… suppose he needed me to find this. But what am I to do? He has to tell or ask… I can’t read minds and he hates surprises … 😉

  4. Number 2 is exactly me! It’s all I want and all I think about all the time. Omg I want to be a shemale more than anything! :)xx

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