Category: Sexology

Felix Conrad

What causes paraphilias? A quick and dirty theory…

Sexology

  Today I’d like to propose a theory about the origins and causes of paraphilias. I call it ‘quick and dirty’ because it deals with concepts which will be impossible to verify until we have a complete understanding of the human brain i.e. NEVER. Therefore, this theory is speculative – the sexological equivalent of bar room philosophy. (Quick note: fetishes are not paraphilias. A fetish is a sexual interest that develops later in sexual development by classic conditioning, imprinting or association. My definition of paraphilia is a sexual orientation that is not hetero, homo or bi. More of that later!) My theory on the causes of paraphilias To understand my theory you need to begin with a question: What can we learn from the established list of paraphilias? Are there any common features which call your attention? Look at some examples… Coprophilia Shit Dacryphilia Tears or crying Dendrophilia Trees Emetophilia Vomit Eproctophilia Flatulence…

Elle

Is penis size important? Can a sissy ever satisfy a woman?

Sexology

FACTOID. There is no significant difference between the average penis size of an African American and a caucasian.  Is penis size important to women? Elle tells it like it is to neurotic sissies and casual readers. It’s not the perfect analogy, but a good way to think about it is to ask if breast size is important to men? All men seem to love a pair of veritable melons…but is it important? Well, it depends on the man. Similarly, the degree to which penis size matters, differs amongst women, so although I would love to engage in small penis humiliation and tell you that all girls care about penis size…the fact is that they don’t. However, before you get on your sissy hobby horse and start believing you might yet make it to manhood…let’s be clear: just as most men would select a model with good size boobs over a…

Felix Conrad

The psychology of forced feminization

Sexology

Editor’s note 1: If you’ve never encountered the term – ‘crossdreaming’ – then go back a step and understand your impulse towards the feminine. Read this article… Editor’s note 2: This article is focused on trans readers and forced fem fantasies. If you are looking for a straightforward analysis of ‘sissy sexuality’, jump to the following piece. No matter how liberal an age we live in, it’s always going to be embarrassing to tell people that you fantasize about feminization. If dealing with that isn’t enough, many crossdreamers also feel shame that these fantasies are not just about feminization, but forced feminization. In such fantasies the subject is forced to dress as a woman and perform sex acts, and is verbally humiliated while doing so. Upon reaching climax, many crossdreamers feel that such fantasies are disgusting. But post orgasmic guilt isn’t the only negative feeling. For a transgender woman, these…

Felix Conrad

5 reasons your straight boyfriend watches ‘shemale’ porn…

Sexology

  1.He’s not as straight as you think. The most common theory is that your straight boyfriend is looking at shemale porn because he’s not ‘straight as an arrow,’ but more like the bow… …moderately bent. It’s important to remember that not being straight doesn’t mean he’s gay. There are a range of possibilities, stretching from he literally loves the cock – all the way to mildly bi-curious. However, if he was into gay sex then you’d find gay porn as well, but many guys who like shemales are turned off by gay porn. This leads us back to the question: if he’s not gay…why is he salivating over a shemale’s penis? Perhaps shemales are mens’ version of Katy Perry’s kissing a girl and liking it. Like girls, a large percentage of men aren’t 100% hetero, but that doesn’t mean they want to fuck boys; instead, it comes out with ladyboys, who have all the nice things about girls (soft…

Felix Conrad

The Psychology of Cuckolding: 5 reasons why a man watches his wife with another man…

Sexology

1. Because the husband wishes he was in the wife’s place i.e – he’s a crossdreamer. Crossdreamers are men who get turned on by thinking of themselves as women. This may involve fantasies of complete female embodiment or something partial like wearing women’s underwear. The crossdreamer is technically heterosexual but also dreams of being a female having sex with a man. The sight of his wife sleeping with another man induces an erotic response that’s part horny, part empathy and part envy. This may seem confusing, but crossdreaming is a confusing area of sexology. Crossdreamers are often simultaneously attracted to their wives while simultaneously attracted to the idea of having done to them what they are doing to their wives (I told you it was confusing). Thus, if a crossdreamer is spanking his wife, he’s getting off on two levels: by the spanking of his wife, but also by the…

Anna Kamari

I know why I like interracial porn…I just don’t understand why men like it!

Sexology

  My relationship with porn is simple… …I look at the girl. I imagine doing what she’s doing, imagine what she’s feeling, imagine what she’s touching, imagine what she’s wearing, imagine how she’s cumming.   But what do red blooded males imagine?  I suppose that they’re doing what the guy’s doing…but why would they ever watch interracial porn? I watch interracial porn because, as a girl, I think black penises are big and beautiful and I imagine myself on the receiving end. But why would a white heterosexual guy watch it? He can’t imagine he’s the guy or the girl. Does interracial porn only exist for black guys, girls and crossdreamers? I suppose there’s cuckolds too… Cuckolding is like watching porn on your wife’s behalf. It’s a pretty good excuse if you get caught…”I was imagining you were her.” But even with regular porn shouldn’t there be more shots of…

Elle

Can an authentic transwoman* still get turned on by sissy porn?

Sexology

EDITOR’S NOTE: This is the same as the above article you just read. The article began as an explanation by Elle of why she created a new website for followers who don’t like the sissy vibe. However, upon editing, I realized that it answered a very important question us transwomen often ask: does watching sissy porn and sissification once you’ve transitioned make you less of a woman? Or… more nightmarishly… does it make you a man with a fetish? So, realizing that it was good for this question, I republished it with SEO for the benefit of Google. *Obviously there’s no such thing as an ‘authentic transwoman.’ The term refers to a type of paranoid thinking present in the subconscious fears of some transwomen.  What is desissfication? DesissIfication is the process by which a novagirl realigns her sexuality and tastes towards the aesthetic of pure femininity, rather than sissy porn…

Elle

SISSY PSYCHOLOGY TEST: What your choice of Halloween costume says about your psycho-sexual personality

Sexology

ADMIN: (PS: Girls… this is for fun, okay? Don’t start writing me long emails disputing the theory or telling me you’re offended.) Introduction: Most girls like to keep their deepest sexual fantasies to themselves. However, there’s one night a year when every girl not only reveals those fantasies, but exposes her entire psycho-sexual profile: …Halloween. After six months of meticulous research and input from sexologists and clinical psychologists across the world, Novagirl has uncovered the key to understanding a woman’s sexuality based upon the costume she chooses. And it also doubles up as a diagnostic tool because a choice of costume can reveal a number of underlying psycho-sexual disorders. How to use this tool: Girls: if you want to discover your true sexual nature, simply click on the costume which you would most like to wear. Then read the explanation. Psychologists and academics from related fields: Simply click on any…

Felix Conrad

Why do married men watch porn? Is he still attracted to me?

Sexology

Introduction… If you don’t understand the intensity of men’s attachment/addiction to porn, it can be humiliating and shocking to discover that your boyfriend is regularly masturbating to Pornhub. However, there are mitigating and aggravating factors which mean that this habit might be completely harmless on one end or outright harmful on the other.  Today we’re going to look at those factors and distill them into 5 reasons why your husband or boyfriend is watching porn. 1. He’s just a healthy, red blooded male. Men are genetically programmed to spread their seed as far as possible. And to mate with as many women as they can. Even if you are a veritable Goddess, he is still going to lust after your friends, your colleagues, and random women in the street. That’s just the way men are. A decent man, however,  keeps it at that level: lusting after rather than pursuing.  In…

Felix Conrad

Why am I a sissy? 10 important questions related to sissy hypno…

Sexology

  1. What’s with the whole French Maid thing? Much of human sexuality is symbolic. This means that humans attach sexual significance to seemingly non sexual objects – fabrics, muscles, frills, whips, power – and become turned on by them. As a servant’s uniform, the french maid outfit represents complete submission – which turns the sissy on. However, what really turns a sissy on is to dress /behave /look like a girl, and because the uniform is a stereotypical feminine garment it’s a triple dose of femininity. Also, a French maid – like other occupational fantasies such as secretary, school-girl and air-hostess – is a female job, thus cranking up the femininity value even more. If you look at other female garments such as girl’s jeans there is very low erotic reward because they are not uniquely feminine. The more feminine a garment is…the more attractive it becomes.   2.…