Felix Conrad

Is autogynephilia real? Yes… but…

Autogynephilia

The podcast… The video…   Yes, autogynephilia is real. It’s a thing. It exists. But acknowledging its existence doesn’t mean we rush off to award Raymond Blanchard a Nobel Prize or treat the concept as the final word on the phenomenon (and certainly not on gender identity and transition.) Understanding AGP requires context, caution, and nuance—hence the Three Laws of Autogynephilia: The Three Laws of Autogynephilia LAW 1: Just because the sexuality described by the term “autogynephilia” exists doesn’t mean it’s the best or most appropriate label to use. My mate Trevor might argue that Welsh people should be called “sheep sha**ers,” but most would (rightfully) quibble with his term. Even if he Latinizes it to amatores ovium, it doesn’t suddenly make the label acceptable. The term “autogynephilia” may align with conventions for naming sexual preferences, but this doesn’t make it immune to critique or misuse. Some might consider this…

Elle

Sissy training: where should I start with feminization?

Feminization Training

EDITOR’S NOTE: ‘Feminization’ in this article does not refer to forced or erotic feminization, but a genuine desire to make oneself look female.   1. THE PROBLEM:  Last Tuesday, a comment was posted by ‘sissymelissa84’ about how painful it was to look at our ‘Instagram Alpha-Girl’ post. It made me realize that Instagram beauties don’t just put pressure on young girls to be beautiful, but also on young boys who want to be girls… more worrying was her description of looking in the mirror.    Then she finished by asking today’s question… “I don’t want to be a man. But it’s just so overwhelming all the things I have to change…where do I even begin to feminize myself?” Variants of this question often arrive in our mailbox: a sissy professes that their head spins as soon as they decide to self-feminize. Today, I will be sharing my thoughts on the issue,…

Elle

What you need to become a BIMBO in 60 seconds: Trans Barbie explains!

Bimbofication

This popular new vlogger catches perfectly in this video the spirit you need for effective feminisation training and bimbofication. The first line of her video is “do you want to be a living, breathing Barbie doll?”  I think I can answer for most of you and say “yes, you do.” However, I think I can speak confidently about most of you and say “you are a bunch of lazy beeatches.” And that’s why the last line of this video is so important if you are genuinely interested in bimbofication. Watch! Assimilate! Act!   I found her video on Instagram – adee.ah She also has a good video on the age-old bimbo staple – lipfiller – on her YouTube channel which highlights the risk of motion if you go to a cheap or inexperienced place (been there… done that… bought the t-shirt!) The problem of motion in lip fillers is as…

Lauren

Top 10 Bimbofication Before and After Pics: VOTE NOW!

Bimbofication

(Admin intro: Emelia was doing so well on the student blog we promoted her. Her first post is a gallery of bimbofication before and after pics.)   Han-nahhh Mistress Elle will be happy with me for digging this one up because that’s my job: demonstrating to you all that bimbofication is viable. Hell yes! Because if any of you say that it’s impossible for a biological male to become a bimbo then you have just been proven wrong. Read it and weep ( perhaps weeping for joy🤣)   Reddit @Danja_cos Yes, there are far more impressive transformations in the history of bimbofication, but i just love this photo because of the title she gave it when she posted it: “Went from cute girl to bimbo in the pandemic.” Damn, all I got was a dose of covid and my parents in my face 24-7! Twitter Reddit     Aviana Violet…

Felix Conrad

The autogynephilia virus is spreading…

Autogynephilia

In what sense is AGP a virus? Excuse the clickbait title, but I thought it would be interesting because I knew that there would be three interpretations by visitors of this site… 1) Those who believe that the concept of autogynephilia is bogus, transphobic and toxic… and so see any advance in awareness of the theory as a spreading malignancy. 2) Transphobes and radical feminists who see AGP as a dark truth behind all things transgender and believe it is some menacing threat spreading through society. The idea that – like reds under the bed or a fifth column – there is a growing army of crossdreamers infiltrating all levels of society. 3) And this is the one I fall into: the belief that perhaps the actual thing – autogynephilia (whatever it is) is actually increasing in prevalence in the male population. This, however, is probably just because a lot…

Elle

Bimbofication – where to start: first steps and first surgery!

Bimbofication

ADMIN NOTE: unlike some other material on the site, this is not a glamor post. It’s a real life look at where you would begin with real life bimbofication with a real life Novagirl. This realism will, therefore, be much less aesthetically pleasing as our ususal posts on this topic. P.S. If you happen to have a perfect hairline then you can avoid this step.   What surgery do you recomend to start a bimbofication program? I’m a very logical, practical person, therefore when a sissy starts its training and bimbofication program I employ a simple top-down method. Start at the top – i.e. the hair – and work my way down from there. (For the record, in sissy training I don’t recommend surgeries. I mandate them. The Sissy Farm transforms its slaves into little bimbo dolls who are rigidly controlled , conditioned and programmed ). True gender – True…

Elle

A 5-step Feminization Plan: “I want to be a bimbo… Where do I start?”

Bimbofication

“I want to be a bimbo.” This is one of the most common e-mails we receive. For these readers, feminization training is not enough… they want to become bimbos. So I decided to write this brief guide on where to start your journey towards bimbofication. The way I see it, there are five initial steps you need to take. 1. Correct your information flow Let me ask you a question: have you ever heard of a happy philosopher or writer or political activist? Of course, not! Being a thinking person inevitably leads you to think about the human condition and its logical adjunct: despair! Forget about the news and ‘issues’ and contemplate… the bimbo condition. Being a bimbo is a state of mind, not just a state of body. That state is something like a void… …a bubbly, shiny, pink… void. Books and news and documentaries will bring you down and…

Felix Conrad

Crossdreamers.com: review and link 5/5

Resources

Jack Molay was one of the first people online to talk about what he now refers to as ‘crossdreaming’  – the term which he came up with once he was exposed to the anti-autogynephilia discourse. Although it’s now lapsed more into a transgender site (feel free to correct this, Jack if you think that’s unfair), it’s extensive library of past articles make it a highly useful resource. It also has a forum and community attached to it, and Jack s a very very nice person. Here you have the links https://www.crossdreamers.com/ https://www.tapatalk.com/groups/crossdreamlife/ https://www.reddit.com/r/crossdreaming/ Jack and I used to share very similar opinions on all issues relating to autogynephilia, but in the end I found myself finding Blanchard’s conceptual framework to still have some purpose. I also became increasingly disillusioned with the trans narrative and community and thus we moved away from eachother.

Felix Conrad

It’s important to think about the wife’s perspective, even if you don’t agree with it

Autogynephilia

I found the above talk to be very interesting because it really showed the two sides of gender awakening. As the husband discovered his true gender it must have been a whirlwind of emotions and an epiphany, but the very same experience is viewed by her as a slide into nightmare. One tantalizing aspect of the video is that she mentions porn couple of times and I would have liked to have known more about that. She did not mention the A word but one suspects that it’s lurking somewhere there in the background. Her concluding argument is that transition was not an appropriate treatment for her husband’s condition because transition seemed to make him less happy than he was before when he was male. It would be very very interesting to hear the husband giving his version of the story.

Felix Conrad

Is it post orgasmic clarity (PNC) or post orgasmic depression?

Autogynephilia

Intro… When someone is an advocate of the autogynephiliac narrative, they always tend to place great credence and authority in the refractory period or – post nut clarity – as they call it on Reddit (how is it that they just always come up with the most horrible terms ever on Reddit 😅). The basic Vibe of yeah above which follows this idea is that… this is your true self. That maniacal, euphoric fantasist of a moment ago has been derobed dethroned and despoiled and now you lie in your reality. Still want to be a woman now? However, that seems a little bit like taking a depressed person and telling them that this is their true self. All that silliness going around smiling in the office and having fun and being happy, that was all an illusion and this now is the real you. Take into account what happens…

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