According to the internet, the answer is no.
Search for men who fantasize about being pregnant, and you’re swiftly redirected to discussions about men who fantasize about impregnating women or the Mpreg movement. The latter is a niche community in which men explore fictional scenarios of male pregnancy.
However, these are not inherently sexual fantasies but rather creative narratives, often involving supernatural or sci-fi elements, where pregnancy is a tool for exploring vulnerability, intimacy, or transformation. While fascinating, Mpreg doesn’t answer the question at hand: do men sexually fantasize about being pregnant?
Surprise surprise: I want to talk about autogynephilia
Even if you do a deep dive into the burgeoning websites devoted to autogynophilia or even start trawling the pornographic material, you still come up with a zero mention of such sexual fantasies exisiting.
However, they must exist!
Why you can predict with 100% accuracy that such fantasies exist
The theory of the sexual behaviour outlined in terms such as crossdreaming, autogynephilia, cross gender fantasies et cetera. predicts that any behaviour, item or experience that is unique to the female gender will become an object of sexual fantasy.
In other words, if there existed a culture in a small village in Wales where all the women did an Irish jig every morning when they woke up, the crossdreamer would develop sexual fantasies about the idea of doing that jig.
No more predictions. This is how I know that pregnancy is an erotic target in cross-gender arousal
When you want to know anything about acrossdreaming you go to the bible on the subject: Anne Lawrence’s Men trapped in men’s bodies…
Anne Lawrence explores various manifestations of autogynephilia, including fantasies about experiencing pregnancy. One narrative she presents is from an individual who describes a desire to “be pregnant and give birth,” highlighting the depth of their identification with female reproductive experiences. This account illustrates how autogynephilic fantasies can encompass aspects of womanhood beyond mere appearance, extending to uniquely female biological functions.
Lawrence’s compilation of such narratives underscores the diversity of experiences among individuals with autogynephilia, demonstrating that for some, the erotic desire to embody femininity includes the profound experience of pregnancy. These personal stories provide insight into the complex ways in which gender identity and sexuality can intertwine, particularly in the context of autogynephilia.
Here’s an excerpt from one of her papers…
Despite the existence of such fantasies, why are they spoken of so little and why do they not feature in AGP porn?
This is Chat GPT’s spin on it…
1. Pregnancy as a Complex Experience Beyond Gender Identity
While pregnancy is biologically tied to women, it’s not always central to the experience of femininity in the same way as other attributes often associated with AGP, such as wearing women’s clothing, having breasts, or engaging in traditionally feminine roles.
- For some individuals with AGP, the emphasis may be on embodying social or sexual aspects of womanhood rather than physiological experiences like pregnancy.
2. Pregnancy Fantasies May Belong to Different Psychological Categories
Fantasies about pregnancy could stem from other psychological frameworks, such as:
- Empathy or Nurturing Desires: Some men may fantasize about pregnancy as an extension of a nurturing instinct, unrelated to gender dysphoria or AGP.
- Transformation Fantasies: Pregnancy might fall under the broader category of bodily transformation fantasies, more aligned with morphophilia (arousal from changing one’s body) than with AGP.
3. Limited Research and Cultural Taboo
The intersection of pregnancy fantasies and AGP is likely underexplored due to cultural taboos around discussing male fantasies involving pregnancy. Since AGP itself is already a controversial topic, researchers might avoid delving into niches like pregnancy fantasies within this context.
4. Fetish Communities Tend to Separate Mpreg and AGP
Online fetish communities often categorize male pregnancy fantasies (Mpreg) separately from AGP-related behaviors. Mpreg content typically includes fantastical elements (e.g., alien pregnancies, magic, or alternate anatomies) and appeals to diverse audiences, including those who don’t identify with AGP. This separation might reinforce the idea that pregnancy fantasies are distinct.
5. Pregnancy Represents Dependency and Vulnerability
AGP often centers around idealized control or sexualized femininity. In contrast, pregnancy involves physical vulnerability and dependency, which may not align with the fantasies of those focused on self-empowerment through feminine embodiment.
My conclusion: yes, there are men who sexually fantasise about being pregnant.
The lack of discussion on the topic likely reflects the complexity of the phenomena and the fact that pregnancy, while inherently tied to womanhood, is a taboo topic when it comes to AGP.