Lauren

Test: Are you Addicted to Sissy Porn

Sissy Psychology

First, take our specially designed test above This test will tell you if you are addicted to sissy – or any other type – of porn. Obviously, the usual disclaimers count: this is an Internet quiz not a clinic. Is it valid to focus specifically on the addictive potential of ‘sissy porn’ ? Yes, and there are two principal reasons for this. 1. it is intentionally hyper stimulatory This genre is designed to be an overwhelming sensory experience, leveraging rapid cuts, split-screen action, and layered audiovisual stimulation to create an intense psychological effect. Unlike conventional adult content, which relies on slower buildup and narrative, sissy hypno content is structured to maximize hyperstimulation, keeping the viewer in a constant state of heightened arousal. This deliberate intensification of stimuli makes it an ideal candidate for compulsive consumption, as it exploits the brain’s natural reward system far more aggressively than traditional formats. The…

Elle

Is penis size important? Can a sissy ever satisfy a woman?

Sexology

FACTOID. There is no significant difference between the average penis size of an African American and a caucasian.  Is penis size important to women? Elle tells it like it is to neurotic sissies and casual readers. It’s not the perfect analogy, but a good way to think about it is to ask if breast size is important to men? All men seem to love a pair of veritable melons…but is it important? Well, it depends on the man. Similarly, the degree to which penis size matters, differs amongst women, so although I would love to engage in small penis humiliation and tell you that all girls care about penis size…the fact is that they don’t. However, before you get on your sissy hobby horse and start believing you might yet make it to manhood…let’s be clear: just as most men would select a model with good size boobs over a…

Felix Conrad

The Psychology of Cuckolding: 5 reasons why a man watches his wife with another man…

Sexology

1. Because the husband wishes he was in the wife’s place i.e – he’s a crossdreamer. Crossdreamers are men who get turned on by thinking of themselves as women. This may involve fantasies of complete female embodiment or something partial like wearing women’s underwear. The crossdreamer is technically heterosexual but also dreams of being a female having sex with a man. The sight of his wife sleeping with another man induces an erotic response that’s part horny, part empathy and part envy. This may seem confusing, but crossdreaming is a confusing area of sexology. Crossdreamers are often simultaneously attracted to their wives while simultaneously attracted to the idea of having done to them what they are doing to their wives (I told you it was confusing). Thus, if a crossdreamer is spanking his wife, he’s getting off on two levels: by the spanking of his wife, but also by the…

Elle

How to deal with being dumped: 5 strategies to stop obsessing over your ex

Sissy Psychology

Elle’s Life Lessons… Lesson 1: Getting Dumped I tire of people easily. This means I’ve dumped a lot of guys (and a few girls too), and it’s taught Your Mistress the following life lesson… That there’s something about being dumped that reduces a human adult to the emotional equivalent of a small child. One minute you have a rational, mature human, and then… …an obsessive, stalking mess, with a dignity deficiency. The last thing I need is another obsessive ex, so over the past few years I’ve started simultaneously dumping my boyfriends and giving them a heads up on how to handle it. My advice is based on common sense, Salkovskis’s theory on obsessions, and RET. Here’s the 5 strategies I advise… 1. Recognize that getting dumped is an authentic mental trauma, that causes a temporary mental illness. Being dumped triggers a temporary bout of mental illness. For reasons that…

Felix Conrad

Are Sissies Transgender? Why Contemporary Transgender Theory is Absurd.

Sissy Psychology

    Introduction Within a short space of time a concept can go from plausible, rational and necessary, to being utterly absurd. When I was young, for example, I believed – like Goerge Carlin – that there was an all powerful being called God who knew what I and everyone else was thinking, and that if I ever did certain things…like believe in other Gods…he would torture me for eternity with unspeakable brutality.  But he loved me! When you finally realise the absurdity of such concepts you don’t know how you ever believed such a thing in the first place. And that’s what has happened to me with contemporary transgender theory.  I have come to see with absolute clarity that not only is it absurd, but psychologically damaging as well. Self-knowledge is one of the most important qualities of a happy, enlightened human being. To use an example close to…

Elle

Can an authentic transwoman* still get turned on by sissy porn?

Sexology

EDITOR’S NOTE: This is the same as the above article you just read. The article began as an explanation by Elle of why she created a new website for followers who don’t like the sissy vibe. However, upon editing, I realized that it answered a very important question us transwomen often ask: does watching sissy porn and sissification once you’ve transitioned make you less of a woman? Or… more nightmarishly… does it make you a man with a fetish? So, realizing that it was good for this question, I republished it with SEO for the benefit of Google. *Obviously there’s no such thing as an ‘authentic transwoman.’ The term refers to a type of paranoid thinking present in the subconscious fears of some transwomen.  What is desissfication? DesissIfication is the process by which a novagirl realigns her sexuality and tastes towards the aesthetic of pure femininity, rather than sissy porn…

Felix Conrad

Why am I a sissy? 10 important questions related to sissy hypno…

Sexology

  1. What’s with the whole French Maid thing? Much of human sexuality is symbolic. This means that humans attach sexual significance to seemingly non sexual objects – fabrics, muscles, frills, whips, power – and become turned on by them. As a servant’s uniform, the french maid outfit represents complete submission – which turns the sissy on. However, what really turns a sissy on is to dress /behave /look like a girl, and because the uniform is a stereotypical feminine garment it’s a triple dose of femininity. Also, a French maid – like other occupational fantasies such as secretary, school-girl and air-hostess – is a female job, thus cranking up the femininity value even more. If you look at other female garments such as girl’s jeans there is very low erotic reward because they are not uniquely feminine. The more feminine a garment is…the more attractive it becomes.   2.…

Elle

The psychology and sexology of choosing a super-hero uniform for fancy-dress

Sexology

Super hero / Adventure hero ADMIN: (Please remember – this is a humorous mock scientific theory!) It has long been known by sexologists that most men are disposed favorably to micro-rectal interpolations, or, as we say in common parlance… … ‘a finger up the bum’. Unfortunately, for most men, however, they’re unlikely to find a willing female partner in this practice. Until now! We discovered that girls who dress as superheroes and adventurers are twenty times more likely to introduce their fingers or inanimate objects (such as a strap-on) into the male bottom. Such girls dress as Lara Croft or Storm to broadcast their desire to dominate men. They may appear to be completely normal in their day to day lives but, according to our research, are likely to have you gagged and bound before the night is over.

Elle

The psychology and sexology of choosing a French Maid’s costume

Sissy Psychology

  Why choose a French Maid’s costume? A maid is a domestic servant who works for the Master and Mistress of a house. It doesn’t take a PHD is sexology to realize that it’s the choice for submissive girls with a strong fetish for humiliation and masochism. However, the fascinating thing our researchers discovered is what the choice of uniform says about their current state of submission: …. that she’s actively looking for a master or a mistress right now. Girls who choose to dress as a maid are subconsciously broadcasting to their peers that they are frustrated sexually. They know that what they really need is a strong hand and they’re just not getting it. They use fancy dress, therefore, to inform any alphas in the community that they are open to submission.  

Felix Conrad

I hate the word ‘sissy’! Here are 6 alternatives…

Sissy Psychology

There’s been some tension amongst our small team of bloggers about the word ‘sissy’. As many of my readers know…I just can’t get comfortable with it. That’s why, every few weeks, I tend to have a minor ding-dong with Elle about her constant and unrelenting use of the word. This finally blew up in a testy e-mail exchange and that’s when she challenged me to find a synonym or replacement for the word, ‘sissy.’ I thought I’d share my results with you. 1. Syster I love the word ‘sister’ and ‘sisterhood’ so came up with the obvious trick of infusing the word with a ‘y’ from ‘sissy.’ Of course, it’s fundamentally flawed because when you speak it you don’t know the ‘y’ is there. 2. Padavka This is the  straightforward linguistic approach. After translating the word ‘sissy’ into 56 languages on Google translate (in many languages they simply use the English,…