Part 4 & 5: Building a therapeutic narrative for gender dysphoria

Felix Conrad

How to Beat Gender Dysphoria

CHAPTER 5: The healer narrative The happiest non transitioner I know is called Toni – a spiritual individual whose transgender narrative is also spiritual. And let’s use that to remember what I said earlier: that you can’t create blanket narratives for non-transitioners: by nature, they tend to be trans critical and in need of an explanation that fits their personality and outlook on life. So, while an empiricist may find Toni’s spirituality completely disqualifying – it’s the base upon which his narrative relies. As a spiritual person, it would be impossible for his narrative to be anything but spiritual. For Toni, the imporant thing is the historical position of transgender women in certain indigenous cultures, most especially a native American conception of gender variance that is called ‘two-spirit.’ In some Indian tribes the two spirit was considered as having the soul of both a man and a woman and was…

READER’S DECIDE: Which interactive narrative should we develop?

Elle

Transgender Interactive Fiction

PARTNER CONTENT – DREAMYGIRL.ORG As you know, we’ve created three interactive narratives this year. We need your help to decide which one we should develop. To remind you… THE SISTER: a mysterious woman appears, claiming to be your sister. REDO: start your life over… as a girl. SHAPESHIFTER: transform into any female form you want. Thanks for your co-operation.. Meet your new sister: Suddenly one day, a strange girl turns up at your work. Start Redo: Dive into this brilliant story, which is fully interactive and allows you to start your life over again. Become a shapeshifter: She can take any form she wants. .

Do women have autogynephiliac fantasies?

Felix Conrad

Autogynephilia

Introduction Yesterday, I read an article by Noah Berlatsky entitled… Why Are Trans Women Penalized For Body Fantasies Everyone Has?  The article claims that when a crossdreamer gets turned on by lingerie or bimbofication, they are experiencing the same buzz a cis-woman experiences for lingerie or the idea of big boobs. In other words, it’s not some kind of ‘autogynephilia’ or ‘transvestic fetish’ but simply…a ciswoman’s sexuality trapped in a man’s body. Not only is this idea nonsense, but it’s the sort of narrative that ends up doing more harm than good to the mental health of transwomen. Why..? …Because it causes cognitive dissonace and unrealistic expectations. They tell themselves they have a cis-woman’s sexuality but continue to experience fantasies that they know, deep down, aren’t very cis. For example, fantasies about… _ Lactation, motherhood and/or female urination. _ Being humiliated and abused for being a ‘sissy’ or a ‘transvestite.’…

The psychology and sexology of choosing a super-hero uniform for fancy-dress

Elle

Sexology

Super hero / Adventure hero ADMIN: (Please remember – this is a humorous mock scientific theory!) It has long been known by sexologists that most men are disposed favorably to micro-rectal interpolations, or, as we say in common parlance… … ‘a finger up the bum’. Unfortunately, for most men, however, they’re unlikely to find a willing female partner in this practice. Until now! We discovered that girls who dress as superheroes and adventurers are twenty times more likely to introduce their fingers or inanimate objects (such as a strap-on) into the male bottom. Such girls dress as Lara Croft or Storm to broadcast their desire to dominate men. They may appear to be completely normal in their day to day lives but, according to our research, are likely to have you gagged and bound before the night is over.

The psychology and sexology of choosing a French Maid’s costume

Elle

Sissy Psychology

  Why choose a French Maid’s costume? A maid is a domestic servant who works for the Master and Mistress of a house. It doesn’t take a PHD is sexology to realize that it’s the choice for submissive girls with a strong fetish for humiliation and masochism. However, the fascinating thing our researchers discovered is what the choice of uniform says about their current state of submission: …. that she’s actively looking for a master or a mistress right now. Girls who choose to dress as a maid are subconsciously broadcasting to their peers that they are frustrated sexually. They know that what they really need is a strong hand and they’re just not getting it. They use fancy dress, therefore, to inform any alphas in the community that they are open to submission.  

The transgirl superpower that intensifies our gender dysphoria

Anna Kamari

How to Beat Gender Dysphoria

Not a lot of people know this…but transgender women have a superpower. Unfortunately, this superpower does not allow us to fly up the Empire State Building or bring down Trump or bring forth world peace. In fact, the only thing it seems to do is bring on a triple dose of gender dysphoria. I realized this transgender superpower as I lay in bed last night, taking a mental tour of my anatomy. Despite the satisfaction of a post transition body which –  through art and science and sheer force of will – I have managed to shape according to my female nature, there is one part that refuses to cooperate. It’s the lost property office between my legs where someone else’s genitalia got deposited. And never claimed. I’ve renounced that organ, I’ve ostracized it, I’ve pumped it with more estrogen than any organ can take, but that son of a…

I hate the word ‘sissy’! Here are 6 alternatives…

Felix Conrad

Sissy Psychology

There’s been some tension amongst our small team of bloggers about the word ‘sissy’. As many of my readers know…I just can’t get comfortable with it. That’s why, every few weeks, I tend to have a minor ding-dong with Elle about her constant and unrelenting use of the word. This finally blew up in a testy e-mail exchange and that’s when she challenged me to find a synonym or replacement for the word, ‘sissy.’ I thought I’d share my results with you. 1. Syster I love the word ‘sister’ and ‘sisterhood’ so came up with the obvious trick of infusing the word with a ‘y’ from ‘sissy.’ Of course, it’s fundamentally flawed because when you speak it you don’t know the ‘y’ is there. 2. Padavka This is the  straightforward linguistic approach. After translating the word ‘sissy’ into 56 languages on Google translate (in many languages they simply use the English,…

Why am I a sissy? Different causal theories from the mystical to the mistaken…

Felix Conrad

Sexology

1. Because the Gods have a special mission for all sissies! Don’t worry, we’ll talk about science and autogynephilia and all that boring stuff, but I thought I’d start with an unusual theory for why you’re a sissy… …The Gods made you that way for a specific reason. The Kitsune Femcult believe that there are two Gods – one male and one female – who represent the binary nature of the universe – light-dark, matter-antimatter etc. – and most importantly… good and evil. Everything that is bad and painful and destructive is birthed by the male, and everything that is good and blissful and creative… by the female. These two Gods are charged with maintaining balance between the fundamental forces. Unfortunately, the male God seeks to bring our world into chaos and darkness.   Biological men whose sexuality or gender centers on being female (i.e. sissies, transgirls etc.) are women.…

The Top 100 most beautiful transgender women in the world – 1 to 4

Anna Kamari

The most beautiful transgirls in the world

The Guidelines: 1. The numerical position is not ranked. We have compiled a list of 100 amazing transwomen and we want you to vote the ranking Return to voting page… 2. Despite hundreds of hours of research, we must have missed some women who deserve to be in the list. Leave a comment on the ‘vote page’ to alert us… and we’ll see what can we do. 3. Remember…this is a straight up beauty contest – not a reflection of who has contributed the most to the wider trans community. 4. Instagram pages have a habit of disappearing – especially if the user works in the sex industry. Apologies for any broken links.   1… Dana Sofia(pic above) (Since this article was written another trans woman with the same name has been in the news and this Dana seems to have gone off Instagram or changed her address. If anyone knows her…