Felix Conrad

Felix Conrad

Felix Conrad

Why do married men watch porn? Is he still attracted to me?

Sexology

Introduction… If you don’t understand the intensity of men’s attachment/addiction to porn, it can be humiliating and shocking to discover that your boyfriend is regularly masturbating to Pornhub. However, there are mitigating and aggravating factors which mean that this habit might be completely harmless on one end or outright harmful on the other.  Today we’re going to look at those factors and distill them into 5 reasons why your husband or boyfriend is watching porn. 1. He’s just a healthy, red blooded male. Men are genetically programmed to spread their seed as far as possible. And to mate with as many women as they can. Even if you are a veritable Goddess, he is still going to lust after your friends, your colleagues, and random women in the street. That’s just the way men are. A decent man, however,  keeps it at that level: lusting after rather than pursuing.  In…

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Is autogynephilia an orientation, paraphilia, fetish… or none of the above?

Autogynephilia

What is autogynephilia? Autogynephilia is a term used by conservative sexologists to refer to the family of sexual behaviors where a man gets aroused by imagining himself as a woman. To understand these behaviors, I would like you to imagine your average guy, jerking off to a picture of Julia. He is usually imagining himself doing all sorts of sordid things to Julia. In the case of the Autogynephiliac, however, he is not imagining doing things to Julia, he is imagining that he is, Julia. (And just in case you’re female and are starting to imagine a Silence of the Lambs scenario, I should clarify that the Autogynephiliac simply wants to look like Julia. He doesn’t want to literally be her, and steal her life, and make a suit made of human skin.) Are there different types of autogynephilia? Sexologists usually divide Autogynephiliac behaviour into three kinds. Anatomical, behavioral and…

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Part 1. How can you beat gender dysphoria without transitioning?

How to Beat Gender Dysphoria

CHAPTER1: Some common sense strategies for beating gender dysphoria Combating gender dysphoria without transitioning is a war on three fronts: Frequency Complicity Narrative Frequency strategies are based on the idea that your overall mental health has a powerful effect on gender dysphoria, making it either better or worse. Therefore, you need to identify aspects of your life which obviously aggravate gender dysphoria. If you’re a borderline depressive with no job, no friends and a hell of a lot of time to think, for example, you’re clearly living a life that will intensify your dysphoria. By using coaching techniques such as life planning, however, you can rebuild your life from the bottom up, treating the depression, getting a good job and investing in new friendships. Thus… by reducing the amount of dysphoria inducing factors in your life you reduce the frequency of attacks. Complicity strategies look for non-invasive, practical ways to…

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How to Jedi Mindtrick Your Gender Dysphoria…

How to Beat Gender Dysphoria

Chapter 1: Be transgnostic. I’m going to begin our session the way I start all my sessions: with a single slap to the face. Your face. No doubt you’ll start protesting, but that’s when I’m going to hold up the cover of this book and point to the title. Come on! Didn’t you suspect when you saw the word Jedi that my gender dysphoria treatment was going to be a bit unconventional? And now that you’re starting to see just how unconventional it is, my tone will soften and I’ll explain why I slapped you. It was to snap you out of the dream. You see, almost every transgender person who seeks me out has lost their fricking mind somewhere in Internetland. This is because a gender awakening leads people to wonder what’s happening to them, so they go to the internet. But while a search for local pizza yields…

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Why am I a sissy? 10 important questions related to sissy hypno…

Sexology

  1. What’s with the whole French Maid thing? Much of human sexuality is symbolic. This means that humans attach sexual significance to seemingly non sexual objects – fabrics, muscles, frills, whips, power – and become turned on by them. As a servant’s uniform, the french maid outfit represents complete submission – which turns the sissy on. However, what really turns a sissy on is to dress /behave /look like a girl, and because the uniform is a stereotypical feminine garment it’s a triple dose of femininity. Also, a French maid – like other occupational fantasies such as secretary, school-girl and air-hostess – is a female job, thus cranking up the femininity value even more. If you look at other female garments such as girl’s jeans there is very low erotic reward because they are not uniquely feminine. The more feminine a garment is…the more attractive it becomes.   2.…

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What’s gender dysphoria like? A GRAPHIC DESCRIPTION

How to Beat Gender Dysphoria

HOW IT BEGAN? It all began with a lingerie model.   I would like to say it was a model who I met in the flesh, but unfortunately my life isn’t so rock n’ roll and she was a model on a YouTube video about the new Victoria’s Secret collection. A friend, knowing of my thing for Alessandra Ambrosio, sent me a five-minute clip of various amazing models strutting their stuff and modelling lingerie at different locations around Paris. My friend also knew that I was on day 1 on the wagon (not drinking alcohol) and sent it to cheer me up. Featured in this video was a model I’d never seen before…and I instantly fell in love with her. As is the way with crossgender love, it was that curious beam of energy we project on the subject of our love but then bounce back on ourselves in some…

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Three Reasons Why ‘Real Men’ Are Autogynephiliacs (this is the only ‘cure’ for AGP)

Autogynephilia

   ADMIN: Can Cognitive Therapy Cure Autogynephilia? The video Many people searching for a cure for autogynephilia are really looking for a way to understand and manage it—to change how they relate to their desires, rather than being controlled by them.  In this article, Felix Conrad applies the transformative principles of cognitive therapy, particularly Rational Emotive Therapy (RET), to facilitate this understanding and management imperative. Instead of seeing AGP as a burden, a shameful secret, or a source of inner conflict, the goal is to reframe it as an advantage—something you can integrate into your identity with clarity and confidence. This is the core mission of cognitive therapy: to transform the way you understand something about yourself or the world so that, in turn, your emotions and actions change as well. If AGP has ever felt like a source of weakness, isolation, or confusion, this approach can help you…

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Do Men Exist Who Have Sexual Fantasies About Being Pregnant?

Autogynephilia

According to the internet, the answer is no. Search for men who fantasize about being pregnant, and you’re swiftly redirected to discussions about men who fantasize about impregnating women or the Mpreg movement. The latter is a niche community in which men explore fictional scenarios of male pregnancy. However, these are not inherently sexual fantasies but rather creative narratives, often involving supernatural or sci-fi elements, where pregnancy is a tool for exploring vulnerability, intimacy, or transformation. While fascinating, Mpreg doesn’t answer the question at hand: do men sexually fantasize about being pregnant? Surprise surprise: I want to talk about autogynephilia Even if you do a deep dive into the burgeoning websites devoted to autogynophilia or  even start trawling the pornographic material, you still come up with a zero mention of such sexual fantasies exisiting. However, they must exist! Why you can predict with 100% accuracy that such fantasies exist The…

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What is autogynephilia?

Autogynephilia

  Introduction: They say in quantum physics that there are some particles which – for reasons unkown – change their behaviour once they are being observed. I would argue that if your taste lies in that direction, knowing about the theory of autogynephilia changes you forever. It can change your relationship with your sexuality, affect your self image, your identity, and your perception of your own gender. Therefore, if you’re quite happy with where you are now, leave this site. If you want to explore your deeper female self… continue reading. What is Autogynephilia? Human sexuality is diverse. There are boys who like girls, and women who like punishment, and men who like animals, and girls who like girls, and women who like men, and boys who like boys. Amongst this wide range of tastes and desires is one known as autogynephilia – in which a man is sexually aroused…

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Part 2 & 3: The role of narrative therapy in treating gender dysphoria

How to Beat Gender Dysphoria

CHAPTER 2: The absence of narrative: why my previous work is fundamentally flawed. Given the scientific impossibility of proving existing narratives for the transgender condition, I decided that the best narrative was no narrative. This I called…‘transgnosticism’. While blocking the rabbit holes of female essence, transvestic fetishism and many others, transgnosticism also embraced the stark fact that nobody knows why the transgender condition exists. Thus, having eliminated the transition pressure of trans theory and the stigma of sexology, the gender dysphoric could build themselves a beautiful life without the need for gender change. However, I now see transgnosticism as an error. Why? Because it’s a well known principle of psychology that when a human doesn’t know or understand, they invent an explanation. Therefore, not only do humans deal badly with non-narratives such as… ‘we just don’t know’… they can’t deal with them at all. In other words, human nature is…

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