Felix Conrad

Felix Conrad

Felix Conrad

Test: Is this just a sissy fetish…or am I transgender? Three reasons why this is the wrong question

Sissy Tests and Quizzes

Introduction Last week, I received an e-mail from a reader in Atlanta who’s facing the ‘is this all a fetish or am I transgender?” question (as you can see above, she described the dilemma in much more colorful language.) We decided to investigate and create a test…   First of all, why do some people see ‘sissy’ fantasies as challenging their transgender status? 1. The sexual desire to be a woman is so incredibly strong that it makes you wonder if it isn’t the main power source of your transgender desire. 2. You are keenly aware that some of your crossgender behaviour is overtly fetishistic (sissifcation, humilaition, transvestic etc.), making you suspect the whole thing is an elaborate fetish. 3. Your first crossgender experiences were sexual – therefore it’s sequentially logical that later transgender experiences grew out of what came before. Let me save you hundreds of hours of therapy!…

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If you’re still arguing about autogynephilia … you don’t understand it!

Autogynephilia

  I was amazed to find a thread on the crossdreamer forum yesterday (best forum on the net to discuss crossgender sexuality!) about autogynephilia. For two years I’ve been a member of this forum and discovered they were still having the same argument as the day when I arrived. Obviously, I understand why this happens, and considering I’ve penned so many articles on the damned topic myself…I’m hardly one to talk. However, I did get a profound sense that I was in different place from my friends, and today I’d like to explain that place and my belief that if autogynephilia gets you into a trans-rage then you’re missing something. Firstly… 1) It’s not worth spending energy on…. Trans people take the theory of autogynephilia more seriously than it deserves. They don’t understand that the more they talk about it and try to disprove it (as if it was a real…

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Should children be taught about autogynephilia?

Autogynephilia

  If I ever have to listen to another explanation of what autogynephilia is… I will go mad. Still, the fact that every single person who makes a video about the topic has to spend 10 minutes telling everyone what it is shows just how the public in general don’t know anything about it. Anyway, once you get past that you will get to the best part of the video where she says an interesting line… “Men have been coaching each other for decades in more palatable narratives.” 🤔 She also makes a very good point about how children who know nothing about autogynephilia, – but are autogynophiliacs – are given no other conceptual framework to understand their experience other than the transgender narrative. In that case… society and the medical profession and families are not educating these children well. This raises a very difficult question of whether or not…

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The psychology of forced feminization

Sexology

Editor’s note 1: If you’ve never encountered the term – ‘crossdreaming’ – then go back a step and understand your impulse towards the feminine. Read this article… Editor’s note 2: This article is focused on trans readers and forced fem fantasies. If you are looking for a straightforward analysis of ‘sissy sexuality’, jump to the following piece. No matter how liberal an age we live in, it’s always going to be embarrassing to tell people that you fantasize about feminization. If dealing with that isn’t enough, many crossdreamers also feel shame that these fantasies are not just about feminization, but forced feminization. In such fantasies the subject is forced to dress as a woman and perform sex acts, and is verbally humiliated while doing so. Upon reaching climax, many crossdreamers feel that such fantasies are disgusting. But post orgasmic guilt isn’t the only negative feeling. For a transgender woman, these…

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5 reasons your straight boyfriend watches ‘shemale’ porn…

Sexology

  1.He’s not as straight as you think. The most common theory is that your straight boyfriend is looking at shemale porn because he’s not ‘straight as an arrow,’ but more like the bow… …moderately bent. It’s important to remember that not being straight doesn’t mean he’s gay. There are a range of possibilities, stretching from he literally loves the cock – all the way to mildly bi-curious. However, if he was into gay sex then you’d find gay porn as well, but many guys who like shemales are turned off by gay porn. This leads us back to the question: if he’s not gay…why is he salivating over a shemale’s penis? Perhaps shemales are mens’ version of Katy Perry’s kissing a girl and liking it. Like girls, a large percentage of men aren’t 100% hetero, but that doesn’t mean they want to fuck boys; instead, it comes out with ladyboys, who have all the nice things about girls (soft…

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What Is the Cause of Autogynephilia?

Autogynephilia

What Is the Cause of Autogynephilia? While Socrates thought it terribly clever to answer a question with a question, my teachers thought it was terribly rude. Thus, though I hate to do it, I have to begin my answer with a question (but you should already know, everything to do with autogynephilia is complicated, including its causes and origins.) The Question That Needs to Be Answered First Before we can determine the cause of autogynephilia (AGP), we must address a fundamental question: is Autogynephilia a fetish or an orientation? This question is crucial because fetishes and orientations are thought to have different causal pathways. Is Autogynephilia a Fetish? If AGP is a fetish, it would belong to the category of what John Money described as a “vandalized love map.” This means that a person’s sexual development was altered by specific life experiences, such as exposure to certain stimuli during a…

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Is Autogynephilia Creepy?

Autogynephilia

Is autogynephilia creepy? Yeah, kind of… but let’s be honest, an enormous amount of the sexual dimension is. Think of the local beauty in my town, Maria, and the most beautiful guy, Jordi. When you think of this beautiful Catalan couple together you think of two exotic olive skinned beautiful young people and it’s all wholesome and feel.good vibes. Then think about the old git, Pedro, who lives next to them with his yellowing teeth and a few strands of limp greasy hair who constantly fantasizes about Maria his neighbor: Same girl, same universal human drive, but in the hands of an old man, we see it as, quote unquote, ‘creepy’. Which should probably be your first indication that what we see as creepy is a little bit unfair. I mean, there’s billions of old people, and we basically expect them to do the decent non creepy thing and just…

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What Happens When A Crossdreamer Doesn’t Transition? Arch-skeptic Takes a Different Look

Crossdreaming

Introduction: The Importance of Challenging Your Own Views on All Matters Related to Transgender Health Look, I’ll be the first to admit it – I’ve spent a fair bit of time being skeptical about transition as the go-to solution for gender dysphoria (caveat: I’m talking here about adults, especially ones with a history of cross dreaming. I’m not talking about kids because I just don’t know anything about that and I don’t talk about stuff I don’t know nothing about. Unless I’m drunk which is quite often, but I’m not drunk now). But you know what? Sometimes you need to challenge your own views and look at things from another angle. That’s what intellectual honesty is all about, right? So today, instead of focusing on the potential pitfalls of transition (which I’ve done plenty of times before), let’s flip the script and examine what happens when people who experience severe…

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The Psychology of Cuckolding: 5 reasons why a man watches his wife with another man…

Sexology

1. Because the husband wishes he was in the wife’s place i.e – he’s a crossdreamer. Crossdreamers are men who get turned on by thinking of themselves as women. This may involve fantasies of complete female embodiment or something partial like wearing women’s underwear. The crossdreamer is technically heterosexual but also dreams of being a female having sex with a man. The sight of his wife sleeping with another man induces an erotic response that’s part horny, part empathy and part envy. This may seem confusing, but crossdreaming is a confusing area of sexology. Crossdreamers are often simultaneously attracted to their wives while simultaneously attracted to the idea of having done to them what they are doing to their wives (I told you it was confusing). Thus, if a crossdreamer is spanking his wife, he’s getting off on two levels: by the spanking of his wife, but also by the…

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Are Sissies Transgender? Why Contemporary Transgender Theory is Absurd.

Sissy Psychology

    Introduction Within a short space of time a concept can go from plausible, rational and necessary, to being utterly absurd. When I was young, for example, I believed – like Goerge Carlin – that there was an all powerful being called God who knew what I and everyone else was thinking, and that if I ever did certain things…like believe in other Gods…he would torture me for eternity with unspeakable brutality.  But he loved me! When you finally realise the absurdity of such concepts you don’t know how you ever believed such a thing in the first place. And that’s what has happened to me with contemporary transgender theory.  I have come to see with absolute clarity that not only is it absurd, but psychologically damaging as well. Self-knowledge is one of the most important qualities of a happy, enlightened human being. To use an example close to…

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